In this podcast, Yoshiko and I (Alex) talk about etiquette for eating out and drinking with friends at an Izakaya, Hanami party or similar events. If you listen to this podcast you will learn some insider cultural knowledge which will help you to give you your black belt in partying with your Japanese friends.
In this podcast Yoshiko and I teach you how to talk about your likes and dislikes. Check out the PDF show notes and podcasts to see all the examples.
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寿司が大好きです Sushi ga dai suki (desu) – I love sushi 寿司が好きです Sushi ga suki (desu) – I like sushi. 寿司がまあまあすきです Sushi ga mama suki (desu) – Sushi is OK. 寿司があんまり好きじゃない Sushi ga amari suki ja nai – I don’t like sushi very much. 寿司が嫌いです Sushi ga kirai (desu) – I don’t like sushi. 寿司が大嫌い Sushi ga daikkirai (desu) – I hate sushi.
Fun Friday is back, Hoorah! And if you don’t know what Fun Friday is, it is a podcast where we temporarily put down our textbooks and talk about life, the universe and everything related to life in Japan. In this episode, Yoshiko joined me to review 2016. We talked about our experiences and the major news events of the last year in Japan. I added links to the topics we covered in the podcast. Enjoy!
In this podcast, you will learn how to ask for help in natural, fluent Japanese. Check out the audio dialogues and audio lesson to learn how to get assistance in Japanese. Enjoy!
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A: ちょっといい? Chotto ii?
Can I bother you for a minute?
B: うん。どうした? Un. Dō shita
Sure, what’s up?
A: このパソコンを全部会議室 へ運びたいんだけど手を貸
してくれる? Kono pasokon o zenbu kaigishitsu e hakobitain dakedo te o kashite kureru?
I want to take all these PCs to the meeting room. Could you lend me a hand?
In this podcast, Asuka and I teach you some useful classroom Japanese phrases so you can interact with your teacher and understand more. We teach you how to ask questions about vocabulary and sentences. In fact, I wish I had known all this when I started to study Japanese in Tokyo all those years ago. It would have helped me learn vocabulary a lot more quickly. We also teach you how to speak in a respectful way to your Sensei. And of course you can catch up with the rest of our random banter about what’s been going on with Asuka and I recently. Check out the podcast!
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Vocabulary
Japanese
Pronunciation
English
先生
Sensei
Teacher
ちょっと
Chotto
A little
質問
Shitsumon
Question
どうぞ
Dōzo
Please go ahead
…てどういう意味ですか
…te dō iu imi desu ka
What does … mean?
…という意味です。
…to iu imi desu
It means…
…でどんな文章が作るんですか?
…de donna bunshō ga tsukurun desu ka
What kind of sentence can you make with…
食事
Shokuji
Food
残す
Nokosu
To leave something
彼女
Kanojo
Girlfriend
振る
Furu
To shake / to dump someone
使える
Tsukaeru
To be able to use something
君
Kimi
You (casual)
指輪
Yubiwa
Ring
Main Dialog 1 (Japanese)
Student:
先生、ちょっと質問があります。
Sensei, chotto shitsumon ga arimasu.
Teacher:
はい、どうぞ。
Hai dōzo.
Student:
「もったいない」ってどういう意味ですか?
Mottainai tte dō iu imi desu ka.
Teacher:
それはtoo good to wasteという意味です。
Sore wa too good to waste to iu imi desu.
Student:
「もったいない」で、どんな文章が作れるんですか?
Mottainai de donna bunshō ga tsukurun desu ka.
Teacher:
食事を残すなんてもったいない。
Shokuji o nokosu nante mottainai.
Student:
そのように使うんですね。わかりました。ありがとうございます。
Sono yō ni tsukaun desu ne. Wakarimashita. Arigatō gozaimasu.
Main Dialog (English)
Student:
(Teacher) Could I just ask a question?
Teacher:
Yes, go ahead.
Student:
What does “Mottainai” mean?
Teacher:
“Mottainai” means too good to waste.
Student:
How do you use “Mottainai” in a sentence?
Teacher:
Leaving food is a waste (mottainai).
Student:
That’s how you use it! I understand. Thank you.
Random Phrase – Mottainai – It’s a waste
Here are some extra examples of this week’s random phrase which is “Mottainai” which means it’s such a waste.
1) 彼女を振ったなんてもったいない!
Kanojo futta nante mottainai
It was such a shame (waste) that you dumped your girlfriend!
2) もう新しいパソコン買うの?もったいないな、まだ使えるのに。
mō atarashii pasokon kau no. mottainai na, mada tsukaeru noni.
You’re buying a new PC already? That’s a waste, you can still use the old one.
One of the most common questions I get is “I want to study Japanese but where should I start?”. The next most common question is “I’ve hit a wall with my Japanese and don’t seem to be improving, what should I do?”.
So, if you are a beginner, or have already started studying Japanese but got stuck, this podcast is for YOU! Asuka and I put our heads together and came up with our top 10 tips for studying Japanese more quickly and effectively. I also wanted to make this podcast to point out that, there aren’t any magical shortcuts or secret techniques for learning to speak perfect Japanese in only a few months. A lot of websites out there would have you believe otherwise!
Rather, it is more about discovering your “why” or motivation for studying Japanese. Then, you want to focus on a specific goal. In that way, you won’t waste your time studying non-essential topics and save a lot of time.
So listen to the podcast to hear about this in more detail below:
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Japanese
Pronunciation
English
Asuka:
おはようございます
ohayō gozaimasu
Good morning
Alex:
おはようございます
ohayō gozaimasu
Good morning
Asuka:
昨日のパーティー楽しかったですね
kinō no paatii tanoshikatta desu ne
Yesterday’s party was fun
Alex:
楽しかったですね
tanoshikatta desu ne
It was fun wasn’t it?
Asuka:
またやりましょう
mata yarimashō
Let’s do it again
Alex:
ぜひ!
zehi
Absolutely!
Top 10 Tips for Studying Japanese
Tip # 1 – Set a clear goal
Me hanging out with some Matsuri goers
This one is pretty obvious. Before you start anything, you should set a clear goal, preferably with a deadline. This will help to really focus your studies. If you’re not sure what your goal is, simply ask yourself “why do I want to study Japanese?”
Do you want to visit Japan on holiday? Do you want to be able to read your favorite manga? Or perhaps you want to become a ninja. Depending on that answer, you can focus more effectively on a study plan.
That might be obvious to you but it is worth saying. And there is one more reason to have a clear goal that people sometimes forget about.
And that is, setting a goal avoids wasting time studying stuff you don’t need to know. If your goal is to visit Japan for a week on holiday, then you should just be studying simple phrases for booking tickets, asking directions and perhaps shopping. You don’t need waste your time studying 2500 kanji from a dusty textbook for that.
So, why do you want to study Japanese? Think about it and leave a comment below.
On to the next tip.
Tip # 2 – Know your everyday expressions
Enoshima, Japan
For those of you who want to visit Japan, work here and be able to hold a conversation in Japanese, learning high frequency everyday expressions is a great place to start. You should know greetings for different times of day, asking how people are and how to say please and thank you.
For example:
おはようございます – ohayō gozaimasu – Good morning
こんにちは – Konnichi wa – Hello (Used around midday)
こんばんは– Konban wa – Good evening
お元気ですか – ogenki desu ka – How are you?
元気です – I’m fine
お願いします – onegai shimasu – Please (Could you do something for me?)
ありがとうございます – arigatō gozaimasu – Thank you
どういたしまして – dō itashi mashite – You’re welcome
Tip # 3 – Learn expressions that don’t translate easily into English
Traditional Japanese tea house
After learning some basic daily expressions you should learn phrases that don’t easily translate into English. In other words, learn phrases that give you a deeper insight into Japanese culture. This also helps you to stop translating words from your own language into Japanese which wastes time and makes you sound unnatural. Here are some examples:
お先に失礼します – osaki ni shitsurei shimasu
This means something like, “I’m sorry for leaving before you”. You say this when you are the first person leaving work or some engagement with a group of people.
お疲れ様です – otsukare sama
This literally means, “you must be tired”. It is used in various situations but means something like good job, or well done. You use it to express your appreciation for someone after they have exerted a lot of effort for something. It can also be used when someone finishes work and goes home for the day.
You often hear the last two phrases together like this.
A: お先に失礼します – Right, I’m off (Excuse me for leaving first)
B: お疲れ様です – Bye (Good job)
これからよろしくお願いします – kore kara yoroshiku onegaishimasu
The word “yoroshiku” means something like good or please treat me well. So this phrase is could be used to mean “I look forward to working with you” or ” I look forward to doing something with you in the future”. It’s used a lot at the end of a self introduction.
いただきます – itadakimasu
The closest phrase I could think of would be “bon apetite”. You say it before eating, usually at home when someone has cooked for you. Itadakimasu literally means “I receive”. It’s not only used for food but 9 times out of 10 you’ll hear it before people eat.
ごちそうさまです – gochisō sama desu
This basically means “That was delicious”. You use it after you’ve eaten to show your appreciation for having received the food and that it was delicious.
All of these phrase teach you the deeper cultural values of the Japanese and give you a glimpse into the way they interact with each other. This isn’t a complete list but it’s a good place to start.
Learn these phrases well young Jedi.
Tip # 4 – Drill common speech patterns
Gotokuji “Cat” Temple in Tokyo
If you only learn one thing this from this lesson, learn this: Drill, drill and drill again common speech patterns. This is perhaps the single most effective method I used to develop my own fluency in Japanese. It’s not rocket science or anything new, but it does work. You just have to do it.
It’s super simple. Just choose a phrase, say it over and over again and just change one word every time. In that way, you practice the pattern until you can say it without thinking and you also expand your vocabulary at the same time.
For example, let’s learn how to say “where is…” so and so in Japanese which is… “…はどこですか” ( …wa doko desu ka)
Now, let’s drill and change one word every time.
銀行はどこですか? – ginkō wa doko desu ka – Where is the bank?
郵便局はどこですか?- yūbinkyoku wa doko desu ka – Where is the post office?
駅はどこですか?eki wa doko desu ka – Where is the station?
コンビニはどこですか?konbini wa doko desu ka – Where is the convenience store?
ガンダムはどこですか?gandamu wa doko desu ka – Where is Gundam?
That’s it. You just gotta do it! You can drill phrases from whatever textbooks you are studying from, manga or even Learn Japanese Pod lesson notes which you can find on our podcast pages.
Tip # 5 – Know your Japanese adjectives
Kakegawa Festival in Shizuoka, Japan
One really good way to start having conversations quickly in Japanese is learning adjectives. Why? Japanese usually omits the subject of a sentence. So although you could say 今日は暑いですね Today is hot. You could just say, 暑いですね it is hot. Or even just 暑い! So you can simply say “hot” and it will make sense in Japanese. So by learning adjectives you are going to be able to say more with less.
This is because Japanese is what’s called a high context language. If you compare it with English, a low context language, you rely on the words in the sentence to convey all the meaning.
However with Japanese, you have to take into account the situation in which the word is being spoken. So, if you are standing outside in the park, sweating and fanning yourself and you just say 暑い atsui – hot, the person listening will fill in the blanks and understand that you are saying that you are hot now.
That means, on the plus side, Japanese can be extremely minimal and efficient in conveying what you want to say. On the minus side, it can sometimes lead to infuriatingly vague and confusing conversations. So when in Japan, it’s not what you say, it’s where, when and by whom it is being said by.
Here are some examples:
暑い – atsui – hot
寒い – Samui – cold
冷たい – Tsumetai – cold, used for things like liquids or solids
高い – takai – high or expensive
安い – yasui – cheap
楽しい – tanoshii – fun
Also, adjectives conjugate. For example, if you wanted to say, it was fun, you say:
楽しかった – tanoshikatta – it was fun
Tip # 6 – Know your basic Japanese verb conjugation
Festival in Jiyugaoka, Tokyo
Just like adjectives, you can use verbs to express more with less. Also, basic verb conjugation in Japanese is pretty simple. Just like adjectives, you can use single verbs on their own without a subject and sometime without an object. Check out this basic pattern:
Depending on the situation you could simply say 行きませんでした which could mean “I didn’t go” or if you raised your voice “Didn’t you go?”. It’s all pretty useful stuff so make sure to learn some basic verbs.
Tip # 7 – Supercharge your Japanese with sentence enders
Although there are many sentence ending particles, you won’t go far wrong if you start by learning “yo” and “ne”.
“ne” means something like “isn’t it” so for example:
楽しかったね – tanoshikatta ne – it was fun wasn’t it
いいね – ii ne – That’s good isn’t it (This is also used on facebook for the “like” button)
“yo” emphasizes the point you want to make. So you could say:
楽しかったよ – tanoshikatta yo – It really was fun
いいよ – ii yo – That’s fine. (That’s totally OK)
Using sentence enders like these make you sound a lot more natural so learn them!
Tip # 8 – Listen to Japanese language learning podcasts
You want to get as much listening practice as you can and these days there is a lot on line you can download and listen to. It’s important to find something that you find interesting and can engage in to increase the chances you will keep listening to it. You don’t have to limit yourself to podcasts. Check out Youtube videos, listen to the weather forecast on NHK news or perhaps watch anime online.
When I started studying Japanese a million years ago, I just bought a simple Japanese conversation textbook with a CD and listened to that religiously. It wasn’t the best textbook out there but it really helped with my listening and prepared me well for studying Japanese conversation.
Whatever you listen to, the point is to just listen, even if you don’t understand everything. The goal is to get used to the sounds, pace and intonation of Japanese. Trust me, it will really help with listening and building the base to develop your conversational skills. You can also listen to a repeat audio out loud which is called “shadowing”. It’s another great way to drill common sentence patterns as I talked about in point #4.
Tip # 9 – Learn Hiragana and Katakana and don’t use Romaji
Just a quick tip here but try to learn Hiragana and Katakana as quickly as you can. Try to get away from using “romaji” to learn Japanese. This is because it’s somewhat confusing to read Japanese in romaji script. Also, being able to read Hiragana and Katakana helps a little with pronunciation as it forces you to speak using the basic sounds of Japanese.
And don’t be shy to start learning Kanji right from the start. But that’s another article for later…
Tip # 10 – Get out there and practice your Japanese
I was having a conversation with a well traveled multi-lingual friend of mine who said something very interesting. He said “if you can engage with the culture, you won’t need any language classes”.
In other words, if you can take part in something you enjoy with other people who speak the language you want to learn, then you’ll learn a lot faster. Of course, taking lessons is essential. However, it can be all too easy to get stuck learning kanji lists and grammar points and not get out there and actually practice speaking with Japanese people.
If you can create the opportunity to interact with Japanese people in real life situations outside of the classroom, that’s when you start to really internalise the language and really start communicating.
My own Japanese speaking skills really improved when I studied in Japan and lived in a dormitory of Japanese students who didn’t speak English very well. I was forced to used Japanese on a daily basis which really helped me improve. I also studied Aikido for a while which also really boosted my speaking and listening skills.
Also, just hanging out with my Japanese buddies and drinking with them in Izakayas was a great experience and a really fun was to consolidate everything I had learned in the classroom.
Even if you don’t live in Japan, you can create opportunities to speak with Japanese people. For example, joining a club, taking Japanese lessons or even speaking to people online.
I can guarantee you, if you are visiting or living in Japan as a foreigner, you will undoubtedly be asked 出身はどこですか – shusshin wa doko desu ka – where you are from?
So Asuka and I (Alex) thought we would make this podcast to teach you how to talk about your home town with someone you have just met in Japan. This is a great way to get a conversation going and with the simple vocabulary and phrases in the podcast, you’ll learn how to do this without too much trouble.
You’ll learn how to say where you are from, describe what it’s like and recommend cool places to visit. Japanese are very interested and inquisitive when it comes to finding out why a foreigner would take the time to travel all the way to Japan.
You can stream or download the full podcast with banter or just download the dialog only audio to help you listen and drill the most important keywords and phrases easily.
I’m half joking but Japanese people tend to apologize more frequently than westerners. As they say in Japan:
とりあえず謝る – toriaezu ayamaru
(Whatever happens) just apologize
In this podcast, Asuka and Alex go through the basics of apologising in Japanese in different situations and contexts. This is perhaps one of the most important skills you will learn when studying Japanese.
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Being humble, sincere and ready to admit you are wrong are traits held in high regard in Japan. Making excuses is avoided as that can be interpreted as being selfish or childish.
Japanese are also sometimes quick to apologize for the actions of others especially if they are in the same group. Some westerners might sometimes find this hard to understand however Japanese people are highly sensitive to the group dynamic and how their actions might affect others.
So, let’s have a look at the most useful vocabulary and phrases for apologizing in Japanese.
すみません SUMIMASEN
This is most common way to say sorry for something. It is common for people in conversation to pronounce it “seimasen”. However, it is also useful in a variety of other situations, for example:
1) “Excuse me” if you bump into someone on the street or just a simple apology
すみません – sumimasen
Sorry, that was bad of me
2) Getting someone’s attention such as a waiter or when you want to ask someone directions.
“Gomen nasai” is a little less formal than “sumimasen” and can sometimes sound a little childish so it’s better to only use this with friends and not your boss or other superiors.
It can also be shortened to ごめんね – gomen ne which is much more casual. When in doubt, use “sumimasen”.
申し訳ありません MōSHIWAKE ARIMASEN
This is a very formal phrase and is stronger than “sumimasen” and “gomen nasai”. This should be used when apologizing to superiors. As a tourist or customer, you’ll often hear this when staff apologize to you.
Here are some typical uses of this phrase:
大変申し訳ありません -taihen mōushiwake arimasen
I’m very sorry
遅れて申し訳ありません – okurete mōshiwake arimasen
I’m sorry for being late
申し訳ありません満席です – mōshiwake arimasen manseki desu
I’m sorry, the flight is full. (no seats left)
申し訳ありません満室です – mōshiwake arimasen manshitsu desu
I’m sorry we don’t have any available rooms left.
失礼します SHITSUREI SHIMASU
Shitsurei literally means “rude” so when you say Shitsurei shimasu is a semi-causal way to say you are sorry. It has various uses including the following;
失礼な!– shitsurei na
How rude! – Used when complaining about a rude person.
失礼します – shitsurei shimasu
I’m sorry / Excuse me
失礼しました – shitsurei shimashita
I’m sorry (This is usually used for something bad you did or a mistake you made)
失礼 – Shitsurei
Sorry (Very casual and usually used more by men)
お先に失礼します – osaki ni shitsurei shimasu
May I be excused? – This is used when you are the first person to leave a social gathering or the office at the end of the day.
ご迷惑 GOMEIWAKU
This means trouble or troublesome and although is not an apology in itself, it is used a lot with “sumimasen” and “mōushiwake arimasen” and is quite formal. For example:
ご迷惑をおかけてしてすみません – gomeiwaku o okakeshite sumimasen
I’m sorry for any trouble I caused. (Polite)
ご迷惑をおかけております – gomeiwaku o okakeshite orimasu
(The most formal way of apologizing often seen on signs outside construction works)
お詫び 申し上げます
OWABI MōSHI AGEMASU
This is extremely polite and formal. It is rarely used in speech and usually appears in formal letters of apology.
Here’s a video we did about apologising in Japanese. Check it out!
Romaji:
konnichi wa. Konkai wa ayamarikata wo benkyō shitai to omoimasu. mazu “sumimasen”, “gomen nasai”. motto foomaru na iikata wa “mōshi wake arimasen”. nihonjin wa kekō ayamaru no de ki o tsukete kudasai. moshi ayamarareteta toki wa “daijōbu”, “ii yo”, konna kanji desu. nihonjin wa ayamaru toki ni ojigi shitari toka, ato “gomen nasai” toiu fuu ni shimasu. kekō nihonjin wa ayamaru no de anmari ki ni shinai hō ga ii kamo. owari desu.
English Translation:
Hello, today let’s study how to apologize in Japanese. First off we have “sumimasen” and “gomen nasai”. A more formal way to apologise is “Mōshi wake arisen”. Japanese tend to apologise a lot so please be careful! If someone apologises to you you can respond by saying “daijōbu” – it’s fine or “ii yo” – that’s OK, something like that. When Japanese apologise, they usual bow or say gomen nasai (and put their hands together like this). Japanese do tend to apologize a lot so don’t worry too much when it happens. That’s it!
In this podcast, Asuka and Alex are back to teach you how to do a self introduction in Japanese to a group of people. For example, this might be useful for you on your first day of Japanese class at university, college or school.
We cover how to say your name, where you are from and what your hobbies and interests are. If you learn the set phrases in this podcast you should be able to do your own self introduction easily.
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How to do a basic self introduction in Japanese
Today’s podcast will teach you how to do a self introduction in Japanese. This is extremely useful for students who are about to start a new Japanese course at university, college or even high school. Don’t worry, although there are many ways you could do this, we’ve made you an easy template with 5 simple steps for you to use to make your own. Just change the words in blue to fit your own information.
Step 1: Say your name
はじめまして、ジェニファーと申します。
hajimemashite, Jennifer to moushimasu
Nice to meet you. I’m Jennifer.
Step 2: Say where you’re from
アメリカのカリフォルニア州から来ました。
amerika no kariforuniashuu kara kimashita
I come from California in the US
Step 3: Say what your hobbies and interests are
趣味はタンゴダンスです。そして、食いしん坊です。
shumi wa tangodansu desu. soshite kuishinbou desu
My hobby is dancing tango. Also I love food.
Step 4: Say you’ll do your best to study Japanese
これから日本語を一所懸命勉強したいと思います。
korekara nihongo wo isshokenmei benkyou shitai to omoimasu
I want to do my best to study Japanese.
Step 5: Use a natural Japanese phrase express good will and end the introduction
宜しくお願い致します。*
yoroshiku onegai itashimasu
I look forward to (studying) with you
*This literally means “I count on your good favour in the future” but it can mean anything from “nice to meet you” to “I look forward to working/studying with you”
If you listen to the podcast you can here more examples of self introductions.
In this podcast, Asuka and Alex teach you how to ask your friends to hang out using natural and fluent Japanese. We’ve included various dialogues to help you learn a few different situations in which you would ask your friends to spend time with you.
Simply listen to the main podcast to hear the main conversations in Japanese as well as full grammar explanations in English. You can also listen to the “Just the dialogues” audio file to practice your Japanese listening and speaking skills. Finally, you can download the PDF show notes to read about the grammar in more detail. Check out the audio podcast below!
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Podcast Lesson Notes
In this lesson we cover some essential useful phrases for asking people to hang out with you in Japanese. Today’s key phrase is:
一緒にお寿司食べに行かない?
issho ni osushi tabe ni ikanai
Why don’t we get some sushi?
Check out the PDF show notes and listen to the podcast to get a full grammar and vocabulary breakdown.